
I’ve been thinking a lot about their birth this last week, replaying those days in my mind, re-reading my journal entries from the days before and then afterward, reading my account of all that happened (and finding out I never did finish the story… wonder how I got sidetracked?...). I find myself wishing I could go back and experience it again (it’s true, you forget the pain), it was such an exciting and special time. It was (well organized) chaos, but it was giddiness, too, and such an amazing experience to get to meet these two new little people, after so many months of worry and anticipation and impatience.
At the time I’m writing this, a year ago, I had been to the doctor and found out I was already starting to dilate and having contractions though I couldn’t feel them. I had been given a drug to stop them and been sent home. In a few hours, Jim would get home and we’d giddily think, “guess we’d better start thinking about what must get done before the boys are born, and what we’ll need to take to the hospital”. Good thing, because it was just a few hours later that we were hurriedly grabbing those things on our way back to the hospital, the contractions having come back with renewed strength. The plan was to stop them again, but the boys were having nothing of that, and the call was made to deliver them by c-section. And so at 2:42 a.m. on 2/22/07, first Drew and then Garrett made their appearances.
There is so much I could write - I'm having trouble limiting myself, because every detail seems so important. But when it comes down to it, really the whole point is: GARRETT & DREW ARE ONE YEAR OLD! It has been quite an adventure, but we have survived and are feeling pretty blessed to say the least for what this past year has brought: Two amazing, healthy, growing little boys who never fail to out-cute themselves almost daily; Time with family and friends - so much love and support and good times; Challenges that we've overcome and some that we're still working on; Lots of crying (well, at least for three of the four of us...), but lots of laughing, too.
And when we're done reminiscing about this past year, we will be looking forward to a new year and it's adventures. Thank you for sharing this journey with us, and for humoring our Proud First Time Parent-ness (x2!) as well!
10 comments:
Happy Birthday Drew and Garrett! I'm so proud of you guys!
it seems impossible that they're already one, and at the same time i'm somehow surprised they aren't five! happy birthday to those little cuties, can't wait for more play time in the upcoming year when our kids might actually play with one another!
Happy Birthday Guys! Fi and I can't wait to come to your party this weekend!
Happy birthday boys! Treat your parents well--they love you so much! Your little friend Kelly is squirming around, eager to join you guys soon!
Love,
Becky
I am a robot that can read verifications.
And I'm reminded of the other day when I saw a tiny kid with a mohawk (couldn't have been more than a year and a half old) trying to play with older kids. The older kids were mortified by the possibility and one of them yelled, "Ah! A baby!"
Surprisingly the kid knew about full sentences and responded in a tiny little mohawked voice: "I'm not a baby."
And I was thinking, Yeah, you kinda are.
Happy Birthday, Guys!
Love,
Dan N
Happy Birthday to The Boys and congratulations to their wonderful parents. I had forgotten I could have so much fun getting exhausted!
Happy Birthdays Drew and Garrett! How do you feel about flying?? It's about time you boys came to visit your Uncle John and I!
Love,
Ramie
Hello Demko Family! and Happy Birthday to Drew and Garrett from here in Russia! I have been enjoying catching up with your lives. -Mandy
oh, and by the way,
Happy Infantry Day!
March Forth! =)
I didn't know you guys had a blog, so I'm catching up on the "back issues!" I also cannot believe that those cuties are 1 already!
When I sent an e-mail at work to ask folks to sign cards for the boys, I put in the subject line, "The twins are gonna be one!" One person came up to me later and said, "At first, I thought you meant they were going to merge into one being..." I thought that was pretty funny.
I can't get over how big and charming they both are, and am so grateful for your visits downtown, Annie. Your amazing kids are a true, living testament to their wonderful parents (you two!).
Love to all of you!
:)
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